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Trust is not what you think it is. It is not absolute or universal. Trust is relative. The same behavior that would cause one person to trust you could cause another person to distrust you. The level of trust someone has in you is the product of their trustfulness (their willingness to trust other people) and your trustworthiness. There is almost (I said ALMOST) nothing you can do about the former, and everything you can do about the latter. Because of that, you must evaluate your own trustworthiness one relationship at a time, separately. Odds are, though, that the same behaviors that are holding you back from being more trusted in one relationship are holding you back from being more trusted in other relationships. Welcome to The Trust Show. I’m your host, Yoram Solomon, a top 10 trust expert and researcher, the author of the book of trust, and the creator of the Trust Habits® workshop that helps people and organizations form new habits that change old behaviors, build trust, and transform organizations. In this educational podcast, I will challenge you to think differently about trust, through the 8 laws of trust and the 6 components of trustworthiness. I will share my own stories, experiences of others, trust research, and sometimes, reflect on a news item. And through those, I will show you how to build trust, be trusted, and know who to trust. Because the answer to this question will have the biggest impact on your personal and professional, success or failure: can you be trusted?
Episodes

Tuesday Oct 24, 2023
S11E4: The Ultimate TRUST Buster: The Truth about BS
Tuesday Oct 24, 2023
Tuesday Oct 24, 2023
The Trust Premium™ research shows that of all the behaviors that a financial advisor, or a professional in general, demonstrates that can affect the probability that a customer would hire their services or buy from them, the top one was the no-BS component, which received the highest score of 4.01 (on a scale of 1 to 5), and 65% of participants said that they would definitely or much more likely hire the services of an advisor who uses no BS in communicating with them. I don’t know about you, but I’m not surprised by this result. We are born with a sensitive BS detector, which improves over time. The surprising thing to me is that salespeople and other professionals believe they can BS their way to a deal, not realizing that BS causes them to lose the deal.
In this podcast episode, I will talk about some of the items I included in my research under the heading of “noBS,” and from The Book of TRUST, I will contrast BS with no-BS behaviors.

Tuesday Oct 17, 2023
S11E3: The Trust Premium™ for Financial Advisors is 41%
Tuesday Oct 17, 2023
Tuesday Oct 17, 2023
My new ground-breaking survey found that customers are willing to pay 41.0% higher fees when they work with a financial advisor they trust more than a financial advisor they trust less. That’s trust premium.
Last week, I received the first results from my first group of panel surveys, which I used to assess the trust premium of financial advisors. I chose financial advisors as the first group simply because, well, I have a friend who is a financial advisor…
In this episode, I will explain how the survey took place, some of the results from the study, and explain what’s next. A survey like that has never been done before, and the results are ground-breaking. I’m really excited about the work I’m doing on researching and affecting the Trust Premium for salespeople, service providers, and professionals in any industry.

Tuesday Oct 10, 2023
S11E2: The Best Salesperson I Ever Met: With Guest Theresa Benson
Tuesday Oct 10, 2023
Tuesday Oct 10, 2023
While the Trust Premium™ research project is ongoing, it seemed like a good idea to interview the best salesperson I have ever worked with, which is precisely what this episode is about. Theresa Benson was the account manager for Apple (yes, that Apple) while we both worked at Texas Instruments. From the first time I met her, it struck me how the Apple iPod team trusted her. It wasn’t until this interview that I realized she probably tripled or even quadrupled my business unit’s profitability simply by being trusted by that Apple team.

Tuesday Oct 03, 2023
S11E1: Trust Premium: The Research Begins Now
Tuesday Oct 03, 2023
Tuesday Oct 03, 2023
In this episode, I'm excited to introduce a game-changing project: Trust Premium. Traditional sales methods no longer cut it in a world saturated with spam and cookie-cutter sales techniques. Customers now buy from people they trust. Period.
My initial research revealed that customers are even willing to pay a premium of nearly 30% for trust. Imagine increasing your prices by this amount without changing your cost structure—resulting in a remarkable 150% boost in net profit.
This isn't just theory; it's a practical solution. I've launched a research project that includes tools, assessments, training, and a fresh approach to building customer trust. And it was never done before. I checked.
In this episode, I’ll tell you all about it. And it’s exciting. Trust me.

Tuesday Sep 19, 2023
S10E12: Ethics, Laws, Values, and TRUST (Revisited)
Tuesday Sep 19, 2023
Tuesday Sep 19, 2023
Recently, I was invited many times to deliver keynotes on the topic of ethics, and specifically my take on the relationships between laws, ethics, values, and trust. Season 9, episode 10 covered the issue, but since then, I had an opportunity to continue and evolve my take on this topic enough to warrant an episode revisiting it. In fact, this is a keynote I’m about to give in three days. In this episode I discussed: (1) the practice of getting the Amazon “bestselling author” designation, and why you should not to it, (2) the ethical bar and the legal bar, and the relationship between them, (3) the erosion of the ethical bar, and finally, (4) how can we stop this erosion.

Tuesday Sep 12, 2023
S10E11: Why Don’t They TRUST HR: The Day that Forever Changed America’s Culture
Tuesday Sep 12, 2023
Tuesday Sep 12, 2023
I truly believe that the HR department is ideally positioned to build trust in the company. I really do. But the first step for HR to be building trust in the organization is for HR to be trusted by the employees. Unfortunately, they are not. A study showed that 75% of employees don’t trust that their HR leader cares about their needs , and only 9% felt their HR leader would advocate for them, while 37% felt HR was more concerned about advocating for the organization.
But why is that? It’s simple: the employees don’t hire, fire, or pay the salaries of HR employees. Management does, and management is more concerned with legal compliance in the employment area than building trust.
And why is that? What if I told you that we have a culture of litigation in whish 2.3% of our GDP is spent on civil litigation, and that the top litigation area is employment?
But what if I told you that this culture of litigation is caused by a single event that happened one night, just over 50 years ago? That question gave me my first TEDx talk in 2018, and after the first part of this podcast episode, I included that entire TEDx talk. The link to the actual TEDx talk video: https://www.ted.com/talks/yoram_solomon_the_day_that_forever_changed_american_culture_yoram_solomon_tedxoaklawn

Tuesday Sep 05, 2023
S10E10: Unlocking Talent: The Ultimate Guide to Hiring Trustworthy Employees
Tuesday Sep 05, 2023
Tuesday Sep 05, 2023
When I delivered a keynote about building trust in remote and hybrid work scenarios, I said, “if you can’t trust your employees to work from home, unsupervised, you have the wrong employees.” Someone then asked me, “how do you hire trustworthy employees?”
When we interview employees, we typically focus on their technical and professional capabilities. Those fall into the “competence” component of trustworthiness. But it’s not enough. Sometimes, we add some of the “soft skills,” but we are often not trained enough to assess those.
Rarely, if ever, do we do anything to answer the question: is this a trustworthy employee? This episode will address: (1) Before starting the interview process, (2) Prework, addressing the “who you are?” (3) First impression, (4) The interview itself, and (5) The relativity of trust—why it’s important to have a team interview.

Tuesday Aug 29, 2023
Tuesday Aug 29, 2023
Do Blue Angels pilots have a death wish when they fly a 30,000-pound jet at 400+ mph and keep 12” from wingtip to canopy? Not really. Are they not afraid? What is the level of trust required to do all of that? Should there be a sign on the wingtip missile rail that says “if you can read this, you are too close?” In this episode, my guest is Scott “Intake” Kartvedt. He flew with the Navy Blue Angels demonstration team, then he flew F35s, and for quite a few years, he has been flying with a civilian Jet team, the Patriots, flying L39s. Oh, and I should mention that he flew planes when shooting the movie Top Gun Maverick and trained the actor in acting while flying in a fighter jet.
Intake will share how trust gets built in a high-performance, high-risk jet aerobatic team and some fun stories from his experience.

Tuesday Aug 22, 2023
Tuesday Aug 22, 2023
Several things happened to me lately that made me focus on one of the branches of that work. At a conference I was speaking at, senior executives approached me and said, “That’s all great, but can we sell more with trust?” To me, the answer was clear, “of course you can! And not only can you sell more with trust, but you can even command higher prices with trust and increase customer loyalty!” Actually, the first book I wrote that had the word “trust” in its title, the first one in the series “Can I TRUST You?” had the subtitle “50+1 habits that will make you a trustworthy salesperson.” The other thing that happened was that within days, Thinkers 360 named me one of the top 50 (actually, #12) global thought leaders on trust AND one of the top 50 (number 17) on customer loyalty for 2023. And the last thing that happened was that I saw a significant increase in demand for one of my keynotes: win with trust, not low price: how to sell more, raise prices, and increase loyalty.
So, in this episode, I will start with some of the higher-level, more strategic perspectives on why trust is so important for sales. In later episodes, I will go “down and dirty” into specific tips about being a more trusted salesperson.

Tuesday Aug 15, 2023
S10E7: What Horses Can Teach us About TRUST: With Guest Addison Gagliano
Tuesday Aug 15, 2023
Tuesday Aug 15, 2023
When talking about trust, I typically talk about people trusting people. But in this episode, I’ll talk about trust between people and horses, and not only that, but actually what we can learn from this relationship about trust between people. My guest today is Addison Gagliano. She trains kids to ride and horses to be ridden. She teaches the horse to listen to and trust people. We recorded this episode right after Addison gave me a demonstration of her techniques, and I can tell you that it was impressive. At the end of the interview, she told me that learning how to read horses helped her learn how to read people better. Better than many of us.
There was one more thing I needed to say about her… What was it?... Oh, now I remember. Addison is 15 years old.